Let’s take a moment to focus on the Freemasonry Mission Statement spotlighted on the Valley of Portland’s website. It reads that our mission is “to improve [our] members and enhance the communities in which [we] live by teaching and emulating the principles of Brotherly Love, Tolerance, Charity, and Truth, while actively embracing high social, moral, and spiritual values, including fellowship, compassion, and dedication to God, family, and country.”
Notice that word: “values.” It’s critically important, because everything we believe—everything we do—is firmly based on striving to manifest good character and good values.
3 Key Benefits for Women
So how do women—wives, girlfriends, sisters, mothers—benefit from the values embraced by Freemasonry? Experts say it is in 3 primary ways:
(1.) Stronger, more fulfilling relationships;
(2.) Increased well-being; and
(3.) A greater sense of security and support.
Each of these contribute to more satisfying, meaningful, positive lives, particularly within the context of relationships and family life. It’s easy to see why. A man of good character embraces and strives to nurture and achieve trust and reliability in his relationships. This fosters a sense of security in his friendships, his romantic relationship, and his other relationships. It allows a woman to feel comfortable and safe sharing her thoughts and feelings, without fear of judgment or betrayal.
Kindness, Respect & Compassion
The kindness, compassion, and respect that Freemasonry cultivates in men are crucial for a healthy relationship with a woman. A man with good character will treat women with dignity and respect, fostering a sense of mutual admiration and appreciation. These characteristics build a foundation for deeper connection and understanding. They also nurture an increased sense of emotional well-being in women: A kind, supportive, understanding partner can help a woman navigate the challenges in her life with greater resilience.
Reduced Stress & Greater Financial Stability
When a woman knows her male partner, friend, or family member is trustworthy and reliable, it reduces her overall stress level which, in turn, leads to greater happiness and a deeper sense of well-being. A man of good character is also more likely to be reliable and responsible with finances, enhancing a woman’s sense of financial security. This, of course, is particularly critical of husbands and fathers: By providing financial stability, men enhance and enrich family relationships.
Scott Galloway Weighs In
In his best-selling book, Notes on Being a Man, famous podcaster Scott Galloway spotlights key traits that define a good man—and a man who benefits the women around him. Chief among these are kindness, a strong sense of responsibility, and a commitment to uplifting others. “Women are impressed by men who are kind; who are good to their parents, who go out of their way to help people,” Galloway writes.
Sounds to us like Scott is talking about men attracted and enriched by Freemasonry.
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